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So I heard from everyone that  prenatal vitamins give healthy shiny hair. For my pregnancy with Carter my hair was growing thick and beautiful and shiny, and I had beautiful curls.... now... YIKES! I have absolutly no curls and my hair looks like I  put my finger in a outlet! Fizz Dryed and Nasty. I have no idea what to do with my hair anymore. I use to leave it down to dry after I washed it and I would get get beautiful curls now ... they form semi dreads! wth?  I need help bad.. if anyone has Ideas to help me with this dilema please help!   (old wives tale ... if your curls go away during your pregnancy ... your having a girl because she is taking your beautiful curls) < this better be true.. i better not be loosing my curls for nothing lol

XO Cmarie